There was a time a while back where I wanted nothing more than to fit into this society. It took me a minute to realize that was the last thing I needed. The road that I was traveling lead me so far away from my desires. Freedom is the most important thing to me. Fitting in could never allow one to do that. It’s all about standing out. To help me with the much needed healing I began to envision red. Red covering me all over. Wearing more red can assist you in stepping into your power. It’s the colour of grounding and individuality. In the office, there could be a lot of favor go your way. In the bedroom it may help you feel a bit more sexy with your significant other. Your roots are very important and red reminds me of roots for some odd reason. I believe this color boosts your self esteem as well. Lately I have been extremely determined in my pursuits of pleasure. At all times your own pleasure and happiness should come first. You don’t owe anyone else a darn thing. The problem is, too many of us are people pleasers. In this life, the goal is to be happy. Happiness is a state of mind. You have to wake up each day with the intent to be happy regardless of outside circumstances. Wear more red. Heal. Be sexual. Be flirtatious and embrace your shadows. Remember that no matter what you do, people will judge you. Do not judge yourself. It is none of my business what anyone thinks of me. Nothing will ever hold e ack again. Different is good and popularity is over-rated Your shadows are your friends. Take a look at the photos below and you’ll see a poem written by me as I was going through this phase of my journey.